I don't think anyone on this thread has said anything close to NIMBY. It is simply a discussion about the effects that the Devonshire Road closure has had, and how that radiates outwards. It's been a fascinating process to learn how different people experience it, and all the effects it has had.
Passive-aggressive anti-car actions (like Red Ken having all the traffic lights changed --at enormous cost, not only financial but environmental-- to eliminate the green wave) is a very socialist attitude that says "we know better than you, here, let me show you how you should be living your life".
Until people can say that they don't:
- Buy from Sainsbury's (lorries that deliver goods)
- Buy online (packages being delivered to the house)
- Own or ever drive a car
- Order food delivered
- Take an Uber
...then I can't see how anyone can say that traffic management is not zero-sum. I'm sure there are the odd saints out there, people that walk/cycle/tube/bus everywhere, never order online, grow all their own food... But this is London, and people live here because they have busy lives and want to enjoy the secondary benefits of living in a thriving metropolis, so they choose to make compromises.
I'm fairly sure that at morning and evening rush hours, the people in those cars are mostly doing it out of need, not desire. I personally would never accept a job that required me to drive to and from work, but I have the luxury of being picky about my employment; not everyone has that. It's an extremely tough problem to solve.